FACET Topics: Faith, Religion/Spirituality

Just as one's physical self opens up to the other in marriage, so too does one's spiritual self open up to the other. In this section the engaged couple looks at where they are presently regarding their own spirituality as well as religious faith and practice. Each couple is a mixed marriage of sorts, regardless of what their circumstances may be. In other words, each has a unique relationship with God — even two practicing Catholics. This section takes them wherever they are and asks them to investigate how they might move into a spiritual intimacy, via prayer, rituals and practices — formal and informal. They are also asked to consider the benefit of a faith community; one that will nourish their marriage and their relationship with their God.

Additional Questions to assist the conversation:

• What will you take away from this section that will assist you in your spiritual marital journey?

• Have you discussed how you will live out your beliefs?

• Where do you feel closest to God, in church, praying, through Scripture, serving others, in nature?

• Is this an area of conflict for you? Do you have a plan to address your differences?